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What do you want from me?

By: Olebogeng Ramerafe

What is it that you want from me? That is the one question I am always posing to men. I am starting to think that they either find it difficult to answer or are just incapable of answering it. This is truly worrying. I am a 22 year “young” lady who knows exactly want I want from a man but yet I keep finding those who only ‘think’ they know what they want.

When I first met my so called “dream” guy I thought ‘hey jackpot after all the idiots I’ve come across God has answered me!’  It is when we first met that this guy asked me a very simple question “what do I want in a man?” I thought to myself only a person who knows where they are and what they want from life would ask such a simple yet intelligent question. My answer was straight forward (or I figured).  One thing I specified was I don’t want a person who’s still playing games for I was done with such idleness in my life. Ladies it is surprising how a man will pretend he knows what he wants for the first three months of the relationship only to wake up one day to have forgotten all that was said when everything started. The question my “dream” guy posed at the beginning should have made it e easy enough to run while he still has time, but a typical South African man (yes I said it) will stay only to hit you with a boom later.

So far I have not come across a guy who can answer the very simple question “what is it that you want from me?” Guys seem to answer according to what they think we want to hear… or to get into our skirts. Maybe they are clever enough to answer the question for that split minute it’s posed only to realise they’ve chewed more than they can swallow… I am a very outspoken individual like most ladies out there who, as I, are often criticised for knowing what they want. I know what I want and what I don’t want. To all the men out there some of us ladies will not try to pretend or give you an answer to please your ego so we expect the same from you if it is not too much to ask.

Simply put, be man enough to tell us what you really want, if it is just a shag please do say. I will reject you (or hey maybe not) but I could never hate you for being honest about what you really want but rest assured that I will hate you for wasting my time and fooling me. Be man enough to say what you want from me just like I am woman enough to do the same, It may hurt me or maybe not but I will be grateful that you were straight with me.

So what is it that you want from me?

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  • Khaya

    Another chapter from the Diary Of A Mad Black Women?I see the point you are driving at in your piece but is it a given that all women know what they want or need,for that matter?a worthwhile piece,though.I look forward to more.

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  • Yo man much blessings, didn’t know you wrote for consciousness. Dopeness, but I’m feeling that you went through crap with the nigger, but one thing don’t generalise all men cause hadde as much as a girl think they know what they are niggers feel the same too…there are a lot of girls who still don’t know what they want. But its a nice feminist touch I guess we need to hear that too. And niggers like that spoil it for the rest of us

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  • Katlego BDK

    My cuz moving piece I must say. Real and to point where a lot of ppl wish not to go. As much as it is said that men don’t know what they want I feel that it goes both way, through experience and from others. To be able to answer this question “what do you from me,” well I guess if each person writes on a piece of paper what they want and then live by it things would be a lot easier to figure out and to answer the question. One BDK.

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  • True to your brilliant and enlightening piece i must say “kudos”

    Wish all the ladies or the guys would think the way you think.

    I am really impressed. Never knew you were a writer.

    You did hit the nail on the head.

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  • Tebogo Petlele

    hi ”Ms wat do u want from me”

    wow…. Spot on . Thats powerful straight talk, i bet most ladies are feeling you . Cant wait for the next passage… .

    Please do send me an e-mail.

    Regards
    Tebogo *Virgo*

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    hi ”Ms wat do u want from me”

    wow…. Spot on . Thats powerful straight talk, i bet most ladies are feeling you . Cant wait for the next passage… .

    Please do send me an inbox.

    Regards
    Tebogo *Virgo*

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  • Olebogeng

    What is it that you want?Its eazy to ask but hard to answer.Personally I’m good with action than theory.Explaining what I want is hard but showing you is a bit simplier.Hope it makes sense

    Good Article Ms Ramerafe,continue to shine.

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  • Naomi Molefe

    Thank U!!! Hopefully they will read this and try to attempt this question truthfully without restrained.

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  • Khaya

    Another chapter from the Diary Of A Mad Black Women?I see the point you are driving at in your piece but is it a given that all women know what they want or need,for that matter?a worthwhile piece,though.I look forward to more.

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  • Yo man much blessings, didn’t know you wrote for consciousness. Dopeness, but I’m feeling that you went through crap with the nigger, but one thing don’t generalise all men cause hadde as much as a girl think they know what they are niggers feel the same too…there are a lot of girls who still don’t know what they want. But its a nice feminist touch I guess we need to hear that too. And niggers like that spoil it for the rest of us

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  • Katlego BDK

    My cuz moving piece I must say. Real and to point where a lot of ppl wish not to go. As much as it is said that men don’t know what they want I feel that it goes both way, through experience and from others. To be able to answer this question “what do you from me,” well I guess if each person writes on a piece of paper what they want and then live by it things would be a lot easier to figure out and to answer the question. One BDK.

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  • True to your brilliant and enlightening piece i must say “kudos”

    Wish all the ladies or the guys would think the way you think.

    I am really impressed. Never knew you were a writer.

    You did hit the nail on the head.

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  • Tebogo Petlele

    hi ”Ms wat do u want from me”

    wow…. Spot on . Thats powerful straight talk, i bet most ladies are feeling you . Cant wait for the next passage… .

    Please do send me an e-mail.

    Regards
    Tebogo *Virgo*

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  • Tebogo Petlele

    hi ”Ms wat do u want from me”

    wow…. Spot on . Thats powerful straight talk, i bet most ladies are feeling you . Cant wait for the next passage… .

    Please do send me an inbox.

    Regards
    Tebogo *Virgo*

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  • Olebogeng

    What is it that you want?Its eazy to ask but hard to answer.Personally I’m good with action than theory.Explaining what I want is hard but showing you is a bit simplier.Hope it makes sense

    Good Article Ms Ramerafe,continue to shine.

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  • Naomi Molefe

    Thank U!!! Hopefully they will read this and try to attempt this question truthfully without restrained.

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